Live Like You Were Dyin'

Growing up in southern Illinois, country music becomes something you get used to being background noise. I don't have any problem with country music, and in fact like a lot of it, but I still have that habit of tuning it out by default.

This is one of those songs that I've heard many times but never listened to until today. It's by Tim McGraw (who has quit a few great songs that even non-fans of country can enjoy) and has some excellent advice on how to face life.

If you've never had the experience of knowing someone who is facing something terminal or possibly terminal, you've probably never had the chance to learn the difference between living and being alive (and between dying and being dead, for that matter). For most people, it seems that they don't start living until some sort of drastic wake-up call. Those who don't need it spend many more happy years that the average person.

Live Like You Were Dyin'

He said I was in my early forties,
With a lot of life before me,
And a moment came that stopped me on a dime.
I spent most of the next days, lookin' at the x-rays,
Talkin' 'bout the options and talkin' 'bout sweet time.
Asked him when it sank in, and this might really be the real end.
How's it hit ya, when you get that kind of news.
Man what ya do.
And he says,

[Chorus]

I went sky divin',
I went rocky mountain climbin',
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull name Fu Manchu.
And I loved deeper,
And I spoke sweeter,
And I gave forgiveness I've been denying,
And he said someday I hope you get the chance,
To live like you were dyin'.

He said I was finally the husband,
That most the time I wasn't.
And I became a friend a friend would like to have.
And all the sudden goin' fishing,
Wasn't such an imposition.
And I went three times that year I lost my dad.
Well I finally read the good book,
And I took a good long hard look at what I'd do
If I could do it all again.
And then.

[Chorus]

Like tomorrow was a gift and you've got eternity
To think about what you do with it,
What could you do with it, what can
I do with with it, what would I do with it.

[Chorus]
I went sky divin',
I went rocky mountain climbin',
I went 2.7 seconds on a bull name Fu Manchu.
And I loved deeper,
And I spoke sweeter,
And I watched an eagle as it was flyin'.
And he said someday I hope you get the chance,
To live like you were dyin'.

To live like you were dyin'.
To live like you were dyin'.
To live like you were dyin'.
To live like you were dyin'.


The idea of this song is summed up by one of Les Brown's most famous quotes -- "Most people die when they are 25. They just don't get buried until 40 years later."

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Visited there

When I heard this song it made me think of when my Dad was told he only had six months to live (three without chemo). He was never a good man, husband to my Mom, or father. After that day in the hospital when they gave us the news, I had the dad I always wanted. He was a different person, easy to talk to and have discussions with. He was loving, fun, and thoughtful. I can understand Linelady's discomfort with the song, on the other hand, the song makes me think about how differently we might live our lives, and what kind of person we might become if we were given that kind of news. At times I try to put myself in the frame of mind to think about what I might do, but I just cannot place myself there. I only can hope that when my time is over here that the people I care about realize how much they mean to me.

I know what you mean. Even t

I know what you mean. Even though things are looking much better than they were at the time, it's not a place where you want your mind to be.

It Hit Home

I heard this song for the first time early this year not long after I fould out I was sick. It really hit home. I still have to turn it when it comes on the radio if I don't want to cry.